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Are you considering getting back into dating after divorce or separation? Are you finding it hard on dating websites and apps? Worried about safety and finding genuine matches? You are not alone – AND we are here to help. It can be difficult to navigate this new terrain alone, which is why our one-on-one consultation is available to pair you with compatible individuals who complement your unique personality, life experiences, and current needs.
With summer in full swing, it’s time to secure your dates for Christmas functions and New Year celebrations and enjoy the season!
What is Casual Dating?
Casual dating can be interpreted in a few different ways, with no right or wrong answer. Some people want something more relaxed without long-term commitment pressure. Some may want to date for companionship or to add spark and passion to their busy schedule. Whatever your motivations for casually dating, someone is out there looking for the same thing. The trick is finding them (that’s where we lend a hand).
Who Casually Dates and Why?
In our network of singles, we have a good balance of people looking for long-term relationships and those who only want casual dating. Some may be busy with their careers, while others may be divorcees wanting to take it slow.
Why is Dating After Divorce So Hard on Websites and Apps?
As you venture forth into the dating realm once more, you may find yourself in a land vastly different from the one you once knew(*1). Dating apps and websites flood the internet and, unfortunately, genuine matches can be few and far between. You may not want to spend hours swiping left, right… left, right, then need a translator to convert ever-evolving ‘text speak’ into an actual conversation. Then, when you finally get the confidence to go on a date, they look nothing like their profile. Online dating is hard which is why matchmakers are invaluable.
You’ve been through the highs and lows of marriage, and you find yourself in a new chapter of your life. One that is both exciting and daunting.
The important thing to appreciate is that this isn’t a re-run. It’s a fresh, new adventure with you in the driver’s seat.
The Question of Safety
The other thing that makes dating after divorce or separation challenging is safety. Meeting people you have talked to online comes with a suite of risks and concerns. Are they really who they say they are? Are their intentions genuine? The list goes on.
Wouldn’t it Be Great if You Had Someone to Vet Your Dates Before They’re Even Considered as a Potential Match?
This is exactly what we do (among other things). We meet with every single member to ensure they are who they say they are and confidentially discuss with them their desires, preferences, and motivations. This way, we cut out the ‘catfish’ and eliminate the possibility of a fake profile. You are only offered real people who match your preferences.
There Really Are More Fish in the Sea
According to the Australian Institute of Family Studies, divorce rates are increasing with 2.2 out of every 1000 Australians divorcing(*2). In the last release of data, NSW recorded the highest divorce rates in the country(*3). That means hundreds of thousands of singles across the country are potentially dipping their toes into the dating world with you. Digging deeper into those statistics, we found that divorces between age groups differed. Men over 50 and women over 45 have seen more divorces than other age groups(*2).
The Silver Lining
There is a silver lining to all of this. You are not alone and the odds of being matched with someone you are going to thoroughly enjoy time with are increasingly high. So, let’s get you out there, mingling, dating, and enjoying yourself again!
Time Poor and Unhappy with the Online Dating Scene? So Are Our Members!
Real people just like you have joined Exclusive Dating Club to be matched with genuine dates for casual dating. Dip your toes in the water with casual dating and if your preferences change down the track, we’ll amend your matches to fit your changing lifestyle.
You may be one of our members’ perfect match for summer parties, New Year celebrations and plus-ones for Christmas parties! So, don’t risk missing out on something great. Your first consultation is 100% free, private and comes with no strings attached. Book on our website or by phone (02) 9251 5289.
*1. Healthy Life. Dating After Divorce at 40 (Or Later) is Possible – Here’s How! 2021.
*2. Australian Institute of Family Studies. Divorces in Australia. Australian Government. 2023.
*3. Australian Bureau of Statistics. Marriages and Divorces, Australia. Australian Government. 2021. Printed postcards and counter cards by absolutecolour.com.au