Older women are confident, independent, financially secure, positive, don’t get bogged down in pettiness or gossip, and know how to enjoy life. For women, dating younger men is hugely appealing. Many young men are looking for older women on online dating sites. Online dating is not always the best option to meet older women. Why? Because of the time involved in setting up profiles, swiping, and messages that go nowhere. Single men should think outside the box to find older women they want to date. Read on for our best places to find an older woman to date – and why you are going to love every second with her.

Best 4 Places for Young Single Men Looking for Older Women to Date (That Aren’t Online Dating Sites)

You may be a Romeo, but if you’re not in the right place to find your Juliet, she will never know you exist. So, where should you go to attract an older woman?

• Head to where the corporates have after-work drinks in the CBD.
• Skip the pub for a high-end establishment such as a suave cocktail bar, art gallery or museum.
• Take a stroll at the local farmer’s markets or Sunday afternoon acoustic set in the park. She’ll be the woman with the glass of red wine or takeaway coffee relaxing in the shade.

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Women Reach Their Sexual Peak Later Than Men

First, regarding the age gap, this may be one year or 10 years. Whatever feels right for you is 100% fine – especially when it comes to romance and chemistry(*1).

From a scientific perspective, the match-up of an older woman and a younger man perfectly syncs with each gender’s natural sexual peak. While women reach their sexual peak in their 30s and 40s, men reach it in their 20s(*2,3). Matching you with a woman in her 30s whom you click with and have amazing chemistry with may see you both having a few extra date nights in rather than out on the town.

If you haven’t dated an older woman before, you are in for a treat. Not only are they just as gorgeous as women your age, but they are more confident about their bodies and being in their own skin (and they are more likely to leave the lights on).

34% of women have dated younger men(*4).

 81% of women would consider dating a younger man(*5).

They know how to treat a man and understand that you want to feel desired and wanted, but that you also want opportunities to showcase your masculinity. Whether that’s opening a jar or holding her close on a cool evening. You can offer a lot as a younger single man - stamina, open-mindedness, energy, positivity and respect – with less baggage from previous relationships.

Older women know the balance between their independence, taking the driver’s seat (in and out of the bedroom) and being vulnerable, feminine and genuine. One other thing. A partner and date that can contribute to the dating expenses if  required and has life experiences and knowledge that spices the connection up to a new level.

Spoil Her with Things She Can’t Buy Herself (You)

The older we get, the more financially stable we generally become so, there’s a good chance that the older woman you’re about to go on a date with isn’t looking for economic security from you (although she will appreciate that she doesn’t need to pay your bills). If she is above you on the pay scale, consider what she can’t (or can easily) buy for herself. For example, a foot rub is so much nicer given by you than someone she doesn’t know at a salon. Blindfolding her and treating her to a night of memories and fun that is all about her pleasure will also not be forgotten. Don’t let your pride prevent a good time. We don’t get any re-runs in life, so if she springs for a surprise getaway, enjoy it. You both deserve unforgettable experiences shared together.

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References

*1. Walter, E. “You Go, Girl! Why Age is Just a Number and Women Dating Younger Men is a New Norm”. Medium.com. 2023.
*2. Rao TS & Nagaraj AK. Female Sexuality. Indian J Psychiatry. Vol. 57. 2015.
*3. Bunting, K. The Male Sex Drive — How it Changes With Age. Health News. 2023.
*4. Better Help Editorial Team. What To Know About Dating An Older Woman. 2024.
*5. Santos, R. Why More Women Are Open to Dating Younger Men. Vice. 2023.